This story is more of a cautionary tale for young teenagers. When I was young,14 years old, I didn’t have the highest self esteem. Guys weren’t really interested in me and I was very naive. I was hanging out with a friend, when she introduced me to her neighbor. He was 28 years old and I was attracted to him. I thought he was good looking, and the whole older guy thing was appealing.
He came on to me and was interested in me as well. At 14 I thought this was fantastic and I loved it. Not only was a guy interested in me,but he was an older guy,and nothing like the teenage boys in school. I was naive and very stupid and the thought of pedophilia didn’t even cross my mind.He said all the right things that a girl of that age loves to hear and all of it was only to get into my pants. And sadly,it worked.
I lost my virginity to that piece of shit. He made me lie to his parents and friends and had me tell them I was 18. At the time,I still thought it was ok and had the mindset of “age is just a number”. But after he got what he wanted,he stopped returning my calls. And we ended up going our separate ways.
To any young girls out there,I know this will probably fall on deaf ears. But just please understand that if you are that age, and a older MAN, is trying to be with you,he is a pedophile. He will not love you forever like he says he will,he will also not marry you and be with you for the rest of your life. He is sick in the head and likes younger girls. I really wish I could go back and tell my 14 year old self to stay the hell away from him.
As a 28 year old man,he knew what to do and say to control a naive low self esteem 14 year old girl to satisfy his sick desire. Don’t let this happen to you,because trust me, you will regret it.
I am 34 years old now and still to this day I regret it,and I wish I would have gone to the police back then,to stop him from doing it to anyone else. But I unfortunately didn’t. I seriously hope he got hit by a bus sometime in the last 20 years.