Two weeks ago I made the best decision of my life. I started seeing this guy from a dating website. We went on 4 dates before he asked me to be exclusive, and not to date or sleep with anyone else. Everything was great until I invited him over to my best friends house for a meet and greet. The first thing that rubbed me the wrong way was that he helped himself into my bff’s fridge and started making a meal with out notifying anyone. He didn’t even ask. The least he could have done was make one for everyone, but he helped himself to the fridge. Later that night he called a bunch of his friends over to my best friends house with out asking if it was ok. No one knew he called and let friends over to someone’s house you just met. You just don’t do things like that. I found out later late I heard he was buying more pills.
We didn’t see much each other after that because I was appalled by his behavior. The next weekend was my birthday and my bff, had fiancee and the guy I was seeing came to party. My ex ended up taking my purse and shoes into his car and drive off. Completely out of nowhere, he just up and left and drove a way absolutely drunk as can be. He refused to answer his phone at this point. I wasn’t going to walk home with no keys or shoes. That was the third flag. I eventually got back my belongings., and left his in the hall by my apartment.
That night after my birthday I caught him snorting Oxycontin of my coffee table so I told him that was it, and I never wanted to speak to him again. I’m not interested in drug addicts.
Fast forward to Saturday July the 9th I told him to stop harassing me and I’d call the police if he continued to do so. I went on vacation to find my house broken into after I got home along with text messages that he was the one who broke into my house. 400+ texts were sufficient enough evidence to get him arrested on criminal harassment, Not to mention the million emails. When a girl says she doesn’t want to talk to you, take the hint!
He is now in jail where he belongs with criminal harassment, theft, damage of property and is now barred for using any electronic devises. for 18 months. Stay away from Dating sites!. They’re Nothing but trouble!!! Funny thing I was only with him just over a month. Looks like a trip to the funny farm after he gets out of jail.
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