A so-called friend introduced me to Gavin. She kept going on and on about how great he is and how he saved her from some sort of bad situation.
When me & Gavin started talking,he was in the military and stationed in Germany. He had leave coming up soon and would be home for a month, so we made plans to meet up. We got quite close during the time he was waiting to come back home on leave. We spoke on a regular basis and really hit it off on the phone.
So finally the time came for him to come back home. We made plans to spend a lot of time together, since his family home was only an hour away. My friend guaranteed me he was a safe person, so we decided to hang out at my house and I cook him dinner. That first day went very well, so we spent time over my house quite a lot after that. Although we hadn’t had sex yet, we soon decided to become official and not see anyone else, although the “boyfriend/girlfriend” terms were hard to label as he lived in Germany due to the military, but still we decided not to see anyone else. He made promises of leaving the military for good once he’s done his time and how he was looking forward to us being a proper couple and talking about all the things he wanted us to do in the future etc etc.
I had to work during the evening and allowed him to stay in my house while I was working and told him to make himself at home (use my computer, eat, watch tv..whatever he wanted) So one night I came home from work and he was on the phone, he made it sound hush hush so I left the room to respect his privacy. When he got off the phone he said it was his Sargent and had to leave immediately as something had happened. He said he had to catch the next train to London. I obviously said it was okay and I rang a taxi firm to get him to the train station asap. Something was off with the way he was acting, but I put it to the back of my mind.
So he was soon off and I called my “friend” who introduced us. I told her what happened and she sounded shocked. She said “it’s 12am, London trains stopped running an hour ago” I was not impressed with being lied to. So I got on my computer and decided to look at the history. And that was when I found the truth. While I was at work, Gavin had been on websites for casual sex meet up flings and also, a particular website that made me literally puke, it was a website for older rich men looking for young toyboys (he was the so called toyboy).
So this great guy who I was getting close to and starting to plan a future with, was on a website not only to meet up with random women for casual sex, but was also on a website looking to get bummed by a old man (silver daddy they call it apparently). I phoned him and told him what I found and went absolutely mental at him and he tried to say how it was a window pop-up when he went onto another site,…HOWEVER, his damn user name was logged into both of those sites and I was able to read all sorts of messages between him and all these other people. As soon as I told him that, the phone was quickly disconnected. I later got an email from him saying how I invaded his privacy and how he can’t be with anyone he doesn’t trust and I had no right to look at his webpage history. I told him not to ever make contact with me ever again or else I would make public everything he was up to. Luckily,I haven’t heard a word from him since.
I am so grateful I never had sex with him, I’m more than grateful actually.. I am f*cking over the damn moon that it never happened.
and as for that friend who introduced us? After it all happened, she then decides to tell me how she didn’t really know him that well…so yeah, I haven’t spoken to her since either.
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