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In my junior year of high school I met a really special girl who was my first love. She was my best friend throughout high school and two years after while I was working as an apprentice steel worker.
She came from a really conservative religious family and was a traditional good girl. I liked this about her because she was extremely honest and had a real big heart. This girl who I will call ‘Jane’ really seemed to love me as we spent most of our non-working/non-college time together. I have to say she was a knock out… Like, this girl would have been very successful as a model kind of knock out. I’m kind of a plain looking guy and was really astounded somebody that beautiful was giving me the time of day.
At 20 we decided to move in together while I underwent a career change. I decided to join the US Army as we just invaded Iraq (spring of 2003) and I wanted to support my country and make some money to get a college education. She also seemed committed to wanting to have kids and a family and I figured it would be a great way to give her that.
I proposed and she accepted. Neither of us felt the other was pushing the other one as we were used to taking things slow over 4 years. We both seemed convinced we wanted to spend our lives together and start a family eventually.
I went through six months of training with my basic training and my advanced individual training for my job going back to back. Eventually we’re back together and she moves two hours to Fort Bragg, NC from our home town. Thankfully we were really close to home. We were planning for the wedding in the summer and a few months after arriving at the unit they wanted me to do a two month deployment to Kuwait to work on a project with the US Army Corps Of Engineers. It pushed the wedding back another two months, but we were doing great and most of the time I was living with her off post and not in my barracks room.
I had this roommate who I will call ‘Tyrell’. Huge black guy that women in the unit seemed to love. He was very happy I wasn’t there 90% of the time at the barracks as he could have a real active social life. We seemed cool, but the dude apparently hated my guts since I had a thick southern draw and I was a ‘cracker’ to him.
So I had this funeral detail in backwoods North Carolina. I keep my dress uniform and gear locked up in my barracks room and went there to change. Myself and another soldier left in the morning and were supposed to be back in the afternoon, but our parked government vehicle got hit by a drunk funeral guest at the funeral home.
J and I are supposed to go out that evening and I forgot my cell phone in the room when I changed and the soldier I was with had his die. We were waiting for the post to send a shuttle to fetch us after we were ordered to await a county sheriff to take a police report and stay with the vehicle until it was towed somewhere where it could be locked up safely. By the time that was all done it was 8:30pm and we still had 3 hours to get home.
I don’t know the specifics of what happened that night, but J came by the barracks and Tyrell and some of his friends were flirting with her. Now, this is a girl who didn’t like to use the word ‘f*ck’ when we were talking dirty as she was that conservative in bed. She hung out with them, drank a little, and ended up making out with Tyrell according to one of the guys there. They ended up having sex right there on my bed in the barracks with the guys watching and cheering. One of them even snapped camera phone pictures while one used Tyrell’s camcorder to record it all.
She showered, cleaned up, and reapplied her make up before I got back to the room to change. Tyrell and his friends were already gone and she apparently was so excited to see me we ended up fooling around. I knew she had been drinking, but she said Tyrell left some beer out before he left and she was waiting for me. I believed all of it and suspected nothing.
Over a week later it started burning when I peed. I thought I must have had some infection and behavioral health told me I tested positive for gonorrhea. She was the only person I had sex with since we met four years before. They did a more detailed test after I pushed them to, but results would take 72 hours to come back from the lab. I thought it had to be an error.
Before the results even came back my Squad Leader asked to see me two days later. After work we sat down in his car and he told me Tyrell has been showing off a video and pictures in the battalion of a girl he says is my fiancée. With his own phone he showed me some of the photos. There she was with her legs wrapped around him and her engagement ring on her finger with him. My Squad Leader told me to come stay at his place that weekend (it was Thursday) and they would have a new barracks room for me Monday.
I went to my room thinking I was going to smash the guy’s head with the tire iron I had. He wasn’t there, but he had the DVD of what happened still in his DVD player so I snatched it and made sure it was the one from his camera he had on his desk. Thankfully I grabbed the only copy of the video that there seemed to be.
That evening I came home and she was studying and we were supposed to watch The Last Samurai which just came out on DVD. I put in the DVD of them in the Blockbuster case and went to the bedroom to pack up my stuff. I told her I was just organizing my dresser. When she finished studying she started making dinner and by the time she was calling for me I asked her to put the movie in while I got the last of my stuff from the bathroom into a bath basket.
She put the movie in and I could hear her crying hysterically. She came to the room and saw my bags packed and tried pulling my things out of them while I hollered at her to cut it out. I told her I knew she was cheating on me and gave me an STD. That is what she came clean.
Tyrell was the first time she did it publicly, but while away at training she met a black guy at her college and started fooling around with him. She developed a fetish for black guys and said it likely had something to do with how racist her family was and how taboo it was. She claimed she was addicted to it and had often been doing it unprotected and even had a pregnancy scare all while she insisted she be on the pill and I wear a condom.
She flat out told me she loved me, but was only attracted to black men and needed them sexually. She seemed to only be apologizing that I got an STD.
I put my bags in the car and went to my Squad Leader’s. I refused to accept her calls. Monday they moved me to a new barracks room and thankfully Tyrell deployed so I didn’t need to see him around any longer. She called, e-mailed, put cards on my car, and even waited for me after work numerous times. After four months she gave up.
I still loved and respected her enough not to breath a word of it to my family or her’s. Truthfully, part of that was shame on my part as I felt so worthless because she cheated on me. I did leave her with handling her lease alone and cancelled all the wedding stuff.
Sadly my next relationship was with a female soldier who I put an engagement ring on way too soon. She ended up knocked up by some guy within 2 months of PCSing to Korea.
However, a few years ago after a year long deployment I did meet a really special lady who I fell in love with. After a lot of trust issues we ended up marrying and having two beautiful kids with. I recently accepted J onto Facebook and have managed to put that hurt behind me and we exchanged some nice pictures from high school and those early adulthood years.
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