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Was there a more cowardly break up?
T got depressed in October & wouldn’t see me for six weeks. My father died Nov 6th. Nov 14th was my birthday. 1 1/2 weeks later, T disappeared without explanation, not answering my calls & messages. I was depressed after my father’s death, I’m very insecure, and I’m used to the people I care about disappearing. Due to these factors, I interpreted T’s absence as he didn’t want to talk to me. After about 10 days, I finally sent T a text asking why he wasn’t answering my messages, that he said he cared about me, & I missed our conversations. The next day, T answered that he’d been away without a phone signal. He said no one else was upset by his absence (no one else was used to daily contact with him!), and that he was uncomfortable that I’d assume something negative about him. I explained about my depression & insecurity. T said he understood, that he wasn’t upset. He wrote a bit about his Thanksgiving, sent a joke, and then a smile when I joked in reply. I thought everything was OK. But then I didn’t hear from T again. I wondered if T had gone away again. I was also worried~ I didn’t know if he was dead or alive. After about a week, I went to T’s place, and was shocked to find that he was at home. I suddenly realized that I’d been left for no reason, and that T didn’t even tell me, had in fact led me to believe that everything was all right between us. I rang the bell. T wouldn’t come down. I rang the bell for a while, and T called the police! Not only was T not man enough to come down and tell me what was going on, but he wouldn’t even tell me that he didn’t want to talk to me. T said that he had very strong feelings for me, that he loved me. He said we were friends, and our friendship was the most important thing. T had also told me that he’d never forget how I was there for him when his father died. He dumped me 2 1/2 weeks after my father’s death!
61 Comments to Was there a more cowardly break up?
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This story is lame.
I agree with pixie
I also agree this story was lame. I want to add that I don’t feel bad for someone who realizes they have insecurities but refuse to work on them.
I agree, Tunes.
Are you sure you were actually in a relationship? T did not seem to think so. He appeared to think you were stalking him. He didn’t answer your texts and messages for weeks on end, or barely responded when he did deign to respond at all. And when you arrived on his doorstep he called the police on you. That tells me that he thought you were some crazed stalker and not a girlfriend. Just move on.
Sorry about your father, but it is the natural order of things to have your parents die. It is difficult, but you don’t need anyone to hold your hand through it. Just about everyone deals with it eventually.
Solve Media says “labour of love.” What the hell would you know about love, SM?
I have a headache now. And if I were “T” the op would have a ex parte order.
Wow, didn’t return messages, wouldn’t open the door, then calls the cops when after your repeatedly ring the doorbell.
Please consider getting counseling. Today. Seriously. And please don’t purchase any firearms – not kidding.
I find it very interesting that you never once mentioned anything about the nature, scope, or duration of this alleged relationship. Perhaps it only existed in your imagination?
The attached youtube video with the story confirms my suspicion that you are certifiably insane.
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