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Psycho, Jealous, Euro-slut
So I met this chick from Finland online while stationed in Okinawa with the Marines a few years ago. We met when I got to my next duty station in Virginia after she flew all the way across the Atlantic. We hit it off quite well and were together for over a year. She could only stay in the US for 3 months at a time so we had to do the long distance thing for months at a time until she could fly back for a visit. I made a really dumb, drunken decision to propose and she accepted. It would have been the only way for us to be together, but after a lengthy fiancee visa process through US customs and immigration.
I took 2 weeks of leave and flew to Finland to meet her family and spend time together. During that time she was on birth control which made her absolutely psychotic, irrational, grumpy and bull headed… Much more than usual. We got into a lot of fights over very trivial things. I was bored out of my mind waiting 2 – 3 hours while she did her makeup and hair and just watched TV in her tiny apartment. She asked which movie I was going to watch and I said probably American Pie 2, and she flipped sh*t! Got super heated that I would want to watch that, I guess because in her mind I just wanted to see other nude women. It didn’t make any sense to me because she owned the movie and I just wanted to see something funny to keep myself entertained while I was bored out of my mind. I did only have eyes for her and nudity in movies is no big deal to me. I had already seen the movie anyway. Other times during that vacation she got pissed at me for watching youtube clips of people playing Metal on guitar. One of which happened to be a female, so she got all pissed at me saying I just wanted to gawk at someone else.
Fast forward 6 months later when she was living at my new townhome in VA. We were out shopping for furniture on base and I happened to see a copy of “Beer Fest” and bought the dvd. The cover has a German bier girl and the US drinking team which made her flip out. She was saying I just wanted to see a “boob movie” and started screaming at me right in the furniture store. I said I wasn’t going to do this here and walked back to my truck. I was furious because I was so sick and tired of the jealousy issues.
She already had a huge problem with me being stationed in Japan because she knew I had dated women there. She already hated Asian women because in her mind they are all “sex workers”, she put it. Any movie we watched with any Asian woman in it she would blow a gasket and begin insulting me, then we would fight and not talk to each other the entire weekend. Several times out in public she would warn me that I better not be looking at any Asian women we happened to pass by.
When she would start her b*tching I found it was best to just ignore her and not speak so I could just do my own thing at home and not waste my weekend with bullsh*t. This made her more angry and once while I was walking away she shoved me down the stairs. I didn’t fall ass end over tea kettle but got so pissed and had to explain to her that domestic assault ends in jail time. She didn’t seem to care because in her psychotic mind she was justified with her actions.
After the Beer Fest incident on Independence Day, she drank over a 12 pack and got far too drunk. I told her I was sick of her sh*t and that I didn’t love her anymore. Then she thew a partial beer at my TV and I said to myself, “yep that’s the end of my TV.” Then comes another unopened beer at the screen and knocks it over. Amazingly it didn’t break or even damage the screen and still works to this day. I had work in the morning so I went to bed but she came into the room and said that she was faking the whole time and stopped loving me a long time ago. She laughed and clapped her hands saying that she had fooled me. I said, “Great, now get the f*ck out of here. Have your sh*t packed in the morning because I’m taking you to the airport after work tomorrow.”
She emailed me begging and pleading saying she didn’t remember what happened last night and that she will do anything to keep us together, on and on. I wouldn’t have it and told her to go f*ck herself and leave my house. Then when I came home she was gone. It was a huge relief to have freedom again and not be bitched at all the time. She had to borrow money from friends to get a flight that day.
In the weeks that followed I got several drunk voicemail messages from here apologizing and hysterical crying in broken English and Finnish. I finally answered one night and had to level with her that we never could get along and it just wasn’t in the cards.
About 7 months later I emailed her to see how she was and we started talking again. This was a very dumb thing to do in hind-sight and long story short, we got back together and she flew out to live with me again. She stopped with the whole hatred for Asian women thing because she knew that’s what screwed everything up in the first place and must have had to bite her tongue many times.
I lost count of how many times I was woken up in the middle of the night with her right in my face asking about some girl I added on facebook. It was either a cousin, an old classmate or friend of mine I hadn’t seen in years or a pen pal I had met online while overseas. Always jealousy issues with women on my FB, scantly clad women on TV and in movies and there were times we passed a pretty girl on the street and she called her a slut under her breath.
She got really frustrated all the time from being a perfectionist. She wanted to play a fighting game with me on playstation. It lasted about 10 seconds when I landed one blow she threw the controller and hit me right in the balls. I took her shooting and it was not a fun experience because in her mind she had to be the best at everything right from the beginning. Very OCD with being clean. If I didn’t take my cammies off right after getting home from work at the hospital I would get bitched at since she must have thought I was covered in smallpox. I got bitched at for using a water fountain at an airport and was always cautioned about using public bathrooms. She must have forgotten that I am a health professional know all about preventative medicine. She always seemed to get sick and I never caught her colds. hmmm…
Once while my truck was in the shop I had to bum a ride from my clinic manager, that happens to be a female. When she dropped me off in front of my house she was right there to see whom I was riding with and gave my boss a cold, evil look. She laughed that my lady was giving her the evil eye and that I shouldn’t be riding with her. My boss mentioned it at work the next morning and we laughed about it. A few days later I was thinking I would be funny and mentioned what my boss said about her and then the sh*t hit the fan. She went off saying that my boss is a slut and is not going to get away with cheating with me and how she is going to f*ck her husband and all this BS. It really hurt me that she would say that because I knew that she’s f*cked someone for revenge. We got in a huge fight and went another weekend without speaking to each other.
In her past she had been engaged and her guy cheated on her with her best friend. Being ever vindictive as always she seduced his best friend and fucked him to get back at her fiance. Almost all the guys she dated cheated on her as far as I know.
The straw that broke the camel’s back happened one night after going to a movie. We came home and drank a few glasses of wine. I fell asleep on the couch a little early after a long day starting with PT at 0500 and a 12 hour shift at my clinic. She woke me up after she drank an entire bottle, saying that some girl had called her phone giggling and asking for me by name. Said her name was “Hannah”, some chick I met on a dating site that was on my FB during the time we were broken up but I never actually met in person. I was half asleep and a little drunk just trying to make sense of it all while this psycho European bitch was screaming at me making accusations of infidelity. I asked to see her phone but she pretended that she didn’t know where it went. My phone was missing too and she wouldn’t tell me where it was. I didn’t take any sh*t from her during our fights and finally she admitted that she had hidden the phones up in a kitchen cabinet and that no one had called her phone. I suppose she just wanted to get pissed at me for something because she had such a huge problem with cheaters.
I asked to see her phone, snapped it in half and smashed it on the kitchen floor. It must have cost her 500 Euros. The bitch finally left after a few days when her plane departed and I haven’t seen her since. She’s a psycho, jealous c*nt I wish I had never met.
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I felt bad for you until you said you emailed her just to see how she was doing. You must like your women crazy because you were just asking for a round two. All the stuff that happened before that, that totally sucks. This bitch is crazy. Second time aroun, well that’s all on you and that’s what you get. You knew what you were getting yourself back in to.
I’m with tunes, I was really empathetic until you decided to take her back. And breaking her phone? What kind of jerk does that? It’s not like you were really doing her a favor by breaking her phone. Also, it makes me think that there’s stuff you were doing to antagonize her.
Yup, I’ve got to agree with the others. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
I had empathy, until you emailed her.
And then you broke her phone…very mature and adult of you.
I think he said that SHE broke her phone…
If I read that wrong, it’s probably because I hadn’t had coffee yet.
“I asked to see her phone, snapped it in half and smashed it on the kitchen floor.”
The clear translation is that he snapped her phone in half, and he smashed it on the kitchen floor.
This guy is a class A moron.
Good luck when you e-mail her again, just to “see how she is doing.”
I would not be a married man if my wife freaked out every time I watched “a boob movie”
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