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Someone to Be Thankful For
F*ck being thankful this year. I got played by a skank who took me for everything that I was dumb enough to give to her and then screwed someone I considered a friend. I met her 3 months ago at a BBQ. I didn’t rush things, just got friendly with her and then we sort of became official. She started staying at my place because it was closer to her job in the city. She worked for a financial management company, made good money, had a nice car, and all of the other things I looked for in a girl. She was set on her own, I wouldn’t be responsible for taking care of her right away or anything. Boy was I wrong.
Things started to go bad when she got into a fight with her “roommate”. She called in tears, asking if she could move all of her things in with me. I was hesitant because we were so new, but she really seemed to be in a bind. She explained that she had found out that the roommate had been overcharging her for things and that they had had a huge blowout because of it. She swore she was going to take her to court and recoup her losses, but as we were leaving, the roommate screamed, “now you take care of that freeloading bitch!” I’m tired of her taking advantage of me. Get a job Amy!” She laughed it off as though it was the roommate who was psycho, but it did throw up a red flag for me.
I noticed soon after she moved in that she wasn’t keeping the regular work hours I thought she had. Some days, she would be gone all day, others she might leave for a few hours, then there were days when she never left. When I asked her about it, she said that she was able to split her work between the office and home, so she would telecommute unless she needed to be in the office. Fair enough. After a few weeks, I asked her about covering her share of things since she would be living here, she got a little defensive and explained that with all of this trouble the roommate had gotten her in, that it would be a few weeks before she had money to give me. I told her to deal with that first and help out when she could – huge mistake.
This girl turned bad quickly. I never noticed her doing any work, she never gave me a penny, and she started hanging out with her friends all of the time. She would come and go as she pleased, and I started to have enough of it fast. I told her that I didn’t think things were working out. She cried, promised to be around for me more, and said everything to try to keep us together. And of course, I fell for it. She came to me 2 weeks ago and told me that she had been in touch with a lawyer, who had told her that she definitely had a case against the old roommate, and was set to get thousands of dollars, all she needed to do was pay $3,000. She said that between her money being tied up with the roommate and investments at work, she didn’t have the $3,000 available and needed to borrow $2,000 from me. She said I would get back that and more. I withdrew the money from my account and gave it to her. She disappeared for 4 days. No calls, no texts, nothing. When she finally did resurface, she started going on about some huge family emergency and how she would have to leave town for a few days. I had no idea what was going on, but before I knew it, she was throwing a few bags into her trunk and promising to call me when she got to her parent’s house. Something just wasn’t sitting right. I knew the old roommate’s phone number, so I decided to give her a call to see what was up.
She told me things that you wouldn’t believe. Apparently, Amy didn’t have a job and the only money she brought in was from escorting or having affairs with married men. The nice car she drove was actually a hush gift some guy had given her to not say anything about their rendezvous. The roommate explained that Amy had a habit of moving from guy to guy, collecting what she could and leaving them high and dry.
So, guess who her latest victim was? Yup, this guy right here! I had fallen for her lies, got caught up in her charm, then felt sorry for her when she really seemed to need help. She was gone and wasn’t coming back. She had gotten some money and a place to stay out of me, and was probably on her way to her next victim. I still haven’t heard from her, with the exception of a text that said “things are crazy. Call you later. Love you!”
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And this is why you NEVER loan anyone money that you are not willing to lose forever without having them sign a contract. I may have no life & watch tv court shows, but at least I will never be screwed out of my money!
Well…lesson learned, I guess. Too bad it carried such a hefty price tag.
Better luck next time.
You’re a moron, OP. I can prove how you are a moron with your own words. “She worked for a financial management company, made good money, had a nice car, and all of the other things I looked for in a girl.”
If the first thing you consider about a woman is the money side, you will be eternally screwed. I have never been involved with a freeloader. Since, I considered only how the person treats me and gets along with other people. In fact, I can honestly say that all of my boyfriends have been extremely kind people. It only happened to be perchance that they were also financially sound. Except for one, and I dumped that person’s ass so bad it bounced into the following year.
I agree with Lotus, never loan an amount that you aren’t willing to flat out give away. The proper response in that situation is, “You’re going to have to ask your Dad because I don’t have that kind of cash.”
lol so if she had a shitty car or no car at all, would you not have considered her, OP?
I don’t know how old you are, but really, I never met anyone who considered a nice car something they looked for in a woman.
A fool and his money are soon parted. I have no understanding of people who “loan” (give) money to people they barely know and then are surprised when they do not repay. Why on Earth would you let someone you barely know move in with you? I am always astounded when I read a story like this, but as long as there are fools and plenty of people to take advantage of them I will have more to read.
OP you completely ignored all the(very obvious)red flags there, and you are now out $2000. Now go grow some balls. And don’t be so desperate; girls look for weak dudes like you to take advantage of…haven’t you ever watched an episode of judge judy?
How come no one ever wants to buy me stuff? This is bullshit, where are all the people like you hiding?
“I met her 3 months ago…I didn’t rush things” uh huh.
OP, you’re a fool and she knew it.
This is just beyond ridiculous and the guy should have to pay another $2000 as a fee for his moronic behavior. Your not rushing things but you let her move in with you after only a few months and you barely knew her? I would hate to see you “rush” things! It would probably involve a engagement ring on date one and a wedding 3 weeks later. Good riddance!
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Kat is SO right. How is being duped and dumped after loaning her money and giving her a free ride, in the span of 12 weeks, NOT rushing things?
You stink like desperation and I can smell it ALL the way over here.
No shortage of women OR men out there running this game…..and no shortage of vulnerable victims ready to open their hearts, homes, and wallets for them , either. Skillful players get pretty good at targeting potential victims,recognizing certain personality traits and weaknesses. Then, using charm (and usually sex),they sink their emotional hooks deep. Let the fleecing begin, and don’t stop til every penny is gone…then THEY are gone.
I’m not going to kick the OP while he’s down , since he seems to fully comprehend how completely he got worked by this bitch. Sounds like he learned an expensive lesson , and hopefully won’t be as easy to fool next time.
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