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I Never Knew!
Well I moved into my neighborhood when I was 3 years old. There was a lot of kids my age and we all hung out together. There was this one kid there named Pat. We grew up together. In high school, I was kind of like the nerd, and he was like the “druggie”. I was dating this guy named Brian at the time, and me and Brian dated from 9th grade to the middle of senior year. Brian broke up with me through a posting that he put on myspace saying “Hey babe, read this!” and it was a posting of the music video Chris Brown “Say Goodbye”. And at the very end of the posting it said “Sorry I had to do this to you.” Well that’s not even the worst of it. Pat and Brian were friends and they hung out all the time. After my break up from Brian, Pat started giving me more attention, even though Pat and Brian were friends. I thought this was weird, but I went with the flow because I got the attention. Well the year after I graduated, I was going to college and I was getting my act together. Brian and Pat didn’t start college (and to this day they still haven’t). One day Pat stopped into my work, not knowing that he was going to show up, we started a conversation. He was telling me how he didn’t have a job and he was seeing this girl who we had graduated with. At the end of our conversation he asked me for my number so we could talk later on. We talked all night (I knew that he was still seeing this girl that we went to high school with)! We decided to meet up the next week and just hang out. I was really starting to like this guy. We ended up kissing and he made me feel good about myself. I had this gut wrenching feeling because I have never been the type to be a “home-wrecker” and I felt really bad for what I had done. Well, after me and Pat hung out that day, we didn’t talk for months. Out of the blue, he texted me and asked if I wanted to hang out since he got his own apartment (Not sure how he was paying for it because he didn’t have a job). So, I went over there and things were going good. He finally asked me out that day. I was so excited! The nerd is dating a “Cool Guy”. Things started off really good, until our first argument. I found out that the girl he was seeing when I first started talking to him lived in the apartment with him. He began to be physically and emotionally abusive. I wanted to get out of the relationship so bad, but he threatened me every time I tried to leave. After he threatened me, he acted all nice again and I really started to like him again. He broke up with me out of the blue in late October (after like 9 months of dating). He didn’t give me a reason, but I didn’t really care since I wanted to have left him for months beforehand. So a few months went by and I started seeing things around my house that were his (I lived with my mom and brother. My mom and dad got divorced when I was little and got back together a few years before my break up with Pat). I confronted my mom and said that I wanted to get a restraining order against him because I didn’t want him near me at all. She kept calling me psycho and crazy for thinking anything. Well one day when I got home from school I decided to be a little snoop and check out my mom’s room. I started finding his clothes and a lot of his stuff in my mom’s room. I found out that he was living there! Without me knowing! I felt betrayed. I confronted my mom and she said that she took him in because “he got kicked out of his house”. I pretty much said screw you mom and moved in with my dad. Well later on that day, I was talking to my friends about what happened and they said yeah he was seeing an older lady, not knowing that it was my mom. I was devastated. Pat left me for my mom!
That all happened a couple years ago. Today, i am happily engaged to a man that i am truely in love with. He gives me so much love and attention and he went to college (hes very smart) and he is graduated and now starting a career. We have been talking about starting a family soon and everything is going amazing. I am glad to know that i finally found the man of my dreams even though it took me a few rough patches to get there.
27 Comments to I Never Knew!
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Wow. Just for future reference, “druggie” does not equal “cool guy”. You should remember this to teach your daughter if you have one.
Staying with an abusive guy out of fear is understandable. it’s a horrid and vicious cycle.
You have to have one of the most disgusting mothers that walk the earth.
Glad that you’re happy now but nothing is ever perfect. Work on it everyday and don’t EVER stay with a guy that is abusive in anyway. I hope your dad is at least a good man.
Can’t wait to see the reunion of the next Maury!
As you all know I have two modes here… Uncle James and Das Schwinghammer. I think I am going to have to go with Uncle James on this one, sorry to say. Assuming this isnt a troll, we have an OP who is either recently out of college, currently in college, or recent drop-out. We also know she grew up in a chaotic situation with a crazy mother and on-again-off-again relationship betwixt her parents. She glosses over facts like “his girlfriend was living with him, but everytime I tried to get out of the relationship he pulled me back in and then he would be nice.” Honestly, how can I kick her ass when its obvious her parents did a job on her self esteem??
OP, listen to Uncle James on this one, you need to work on YOU. I am glad the new dude is awesome, but if you can start a family and live a productive life after all of that WITHOUT therapy, then you are a superhero and should fight crime. Good luck to you, please take a few writing courses, avoid your mother, and get a good strink.
Well captain cockasaurus here is going to break out his “Schwinghammer”.
WTF, you went to college and you write like this? Seriously, I don’t know what they call it in English class, but I call it “string of conscious writing”. Writing things as they sound in your head does not translate to easy or good reading. For godsakes take some time to gather your thoughts into a conhesive format before writing, otherwise you will make other people’s eyes bleed as they try to follow whatever the hell it is you are trying to say. That is all.
After reading this I am not sure how to respond. On the one hand I want to chew the shit out of you for dating a druggie who already had a woman. On the other I want to tell you that it’s fucked up that your mom would be dating the guy who was using you to cheat on his current.
Good thing you moved in with your dad atleast… no worries unless your dad swings the other way and this current ex really wants to pull a fast one on you.
This story reminds me of something off of the old Homebase youtube video where the guy in order to exact revenge on his former lover decides to go on a quest to sleep with her mother. So maybe we got trolled.
I’m confused, didn’t they already post an “unedited for your enjoyment” story this week? College-educated “nerd”, huh?
Omg I’m such a nerd cuz my boyfriend took me to see Batman Begins lol NERDYYYYYYYY
Ugh. You’re gross and so is your mother.
I don’t think I believe a word of this story. If I’m wrong, I’m very sorry you were subjected to such an ass of a guy, and a wretch of a mother. However, how oblivous and unobservant can you possibly be to not know that your own boyfriend is living in the same house as you AND shtooping your mother??? Seriously. Is this what they’re teaching in college these days, that druggies are “cool” and sentences like “he is graduated” are used??? If you are truly the product of a college education then I’m just going to start blowing my children’s college funds on peppermint schnapps and Funyuns because that’s all their diploma will be worth.
Sorry, I meant degree, not diploma. LOL
I would like to fuck Uncle James.
justsayin
Really sucks you had to have that happen to you, although you’re kinda dumb for thinking “druggie” is “cool”.
Is it just me, or does anyone else hate it when people go into detail about how they “got a better man now and am so much happier, like omg!” I dunno but I think an “I’m over it, have a new relationship/fiancee/husband and am happy with my current situation” would suffice.
Proper grammar would be nice, too.
It’s “stream-of-consciousness,” as displayed in Faulkner’s, The Sound and the Fury. There is no such thing as “String-of-Consciousness.”
(This update brought to by the letters A & B and the numeral 6, as in my 6th-grade English teacher.)
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