So I met “L” when I was 14. We were friends, and to make a long story short we wound up getting together. 3 months into the relationship, I moved away. We stayed together. We were together for a year and 7 months, and he treated me like crap. He was telling me what to wear, what color to have my hair, how long to have it, if I could wear make up etc. Well I got sick of it, so I cut my hair off and dyed it black. He proceeds to tell me how much of an ugly bitch I am and breaks up with me. Of course the next day I got 70 missed calls from him begging me to take him back blah blah blah, attempts to kill himself, blames it all on me. The typical psycho sh*t. 2 and a half years later, I’m in a serious relationship, have been for 2 years. He hasn’t dated anyone since me .